Old school guy needs moral support

Hi guys, it’s been ages since I visit this forum.

I used to PE back in 2000 - 2005. Now I do so some manual PE every now and then. Back in 2010 I accidentally squeezed some of the bulk of veins on the right bottom side of my penis while doing some jelqing and it went away. But afterwards the area kind of remained sensitive, for instance when using a pump (I used to pump for 10 min, very moderate pressure, I use the hose with my mouth really moderate). Basically the pump created discomfort on base of the scrotum, right side.

For the last month or so I have doing some very light jelqing, kegels and super light for the last week. Just wanted to do some maintenance, that’s all.
3 days ago I pumped for 8 min after jelqing and yesterday again: I felt again discomfort on the right bottom side. I applied hot water, took one pain killer pill and woke up just fine, no pain.
I know should have rested today, but I wanted to check the unit and masturbated, erection seemed OK but I felt the discomfort on the base and a little bit up when I tried to masturbate for the 2nd time.

The problem is that I have a date with someone that I really, really, really care about in exactly one week (we did not have sex yet….). I do not know if one week will be enough to feel 100% OK. If don’t see her then I will have to reschedule for May.
(What is even worse is that I have a tendinitis that sometimes makes one of the nerves hurt, one of the nerves reaching my right testicle. But this is not what triggered the current problem).

Anyone here with this kind of problem? Any treatment suggestions? Shall I wait until May to be on the safe side?

Take something antinflammatory.

I just found my post from 2011, below. It seems I am having this problem since 2010. It goes away, but it prevents me from coming back to PE in full. Recently, I had similar pain without PE and the doc discovered it was coming from a nerve affected by a tendinitis next to my scrotum, right side. I might be touching the same nerve while pumping? It is impossible to know and it might be a coincidence as well. What a nightmare, if my base can’t take any pressure I can’t even jelq…. this is something no doc will be able to answer.

I had ultra sounds in the past, they found nothing wrong in the scrotum, once the spermatic cord was inflamed but nothing serious. The last discovery is the tendinitis.

I am confused.

Hi everyone,

I have PEd for a long time - on and off since 2001.

It seems that whenever I come back to it, pumping at a very low pressure for only 10 min or even when I do manual PE, I get pain at the base of the penis/scrotum, on the right side.

To be accurate, the penis actually does not hurt, only the sack of veins in the scrotum/base on the right side… At first I thought it was related to the varicocele that I have had all my life, but hey, pain is on the right side and the varicocele is on the left side and not on the base.

The area gets a little bit swollen and it bothers me when I am sitting and even with tight underwear. Sex is fine, but it is not nice if it hurts down there, as you can imagine. This happened to me last year as well, around june after a jelq session and again this year after a very moderate pump session.

I told the doc about rough sex (not PE) and he said it was nothing serious, just a minor trauma that goes away with time. He also said it is not related to the varicocele.

It seems I must quit PE and devote my sessions to kegels and lifting towels ; ) What would you do?

I hope this is of help to the PE community. Your feedback is welcome.
Josip.

As said anti inflammatory supplements oral and maybe transdermal(with dmso..but you need to read safety things about it).

How old are you? the older the more improtant is absolutely healthy lifestyle for these things to calm.

mid thirties, super fit (I am a runner, that is why I have the f* tendinitis).

I know it will heal, the problem is I have one week, as I have a new date then. And I am wondering if I shoud postpone it. There is nothing like a first impression….

Keep the date dude. Just take a break till then and even after words. PE isn’t everything. Heal yourself.

Well I guess you are right
The unit works well, tested it today, again, EQ was OK with some cheap porn and no motivation at all. No real pain but a little bit sore from a month of manual PE
The big question for me is whether to continue some with some light C jelq sessions or not. Pumps are not compatible with my body and I guess I should stop ulis as well.

Any suggestions for girth in the upper shaft?

My man. The key to erection power is not to care about them that much while you are penetrating, care about yourself and enjoy the experience. Have faith in your skills that she will enjoy herself too. If you focus completely on her and her feelings, it’ll mess your c0ck up. So you gotta shake it off figure you basically already got her, and just be a man. Don’t worry about sex. Try to get it, and if you do take it.

Hanging.