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My dick has been numb and flaccid for 4 days

Fasting will not help that. Now a pepperoni pizza on the other hand may do the trick. Chill out!

Lay down on your back and take a deep breath that inflates your stomach instead of your chest, and then push like you are trying to shit. This is a reverse kegel, and it really does help a little, at least it has in my case.
Do it often, or whenever you feel like you have hard flaccid. Just don’t push too hard while you’re doing it, do it slowly and don’t strain yourself.

Just a heads up. Doctors can be pretty dismissive on this subject because they don’t want to worry you even more, and there is a big possibility the doctor will try to say it’s all in your head. So try to keep a calm attitude and don’t tell him you’re freaking out about it, just tell him you know something is physically wrong and voice your concerns, and become very persistent if he is dismissive.

Originally Posted by ChuckaChicken
Lay down on your back and take a deep breath that inflates your stomach instead of your chest, and then push like you are trying to shit. This is a reverse kegel, and it really does help a little, at least it has in my case.
Do it often, or whenever you feel like you have hard flaccid. Just don’t push too hard while you’re doing it, do it slowly and don’t strain yourself.

Just a heads up. Doctors can be pretty dismissive on this subject because they don’t want to worry you even more, and there is a big possibility the doctor will try to say it’s all in your head. So try to keep a calm attitude and don’t tell him you’re freaking out about it, just tell him you know something is physically wrong and voice your concerns, and become very persistent if he is dismissive.

Thanks for the tips, I’ll start to focus more on relaxation and less on waiting.
I still have some hope about all this and it I get okayish erections once a morning basicly. Fascia tear from ejaculation sound so absurd and my symptoms are matchning but not exact.

My hard flaccid isn’t really shrunken in size like the “regular” I’ve read about and I still have ache/pain although less and it’s getting less painfull over time.

I’m not sure about the pain subsiding yet cause it goes up and down each day. Located at penis base underside.
I hope I have a heavy muscle tear/strain/knots of some kind, and it’s not impossible.

Will eat pizza soon but might as well try fasting now that I started.

I won’t have any sexuality until 2017 but right now weak erections and pain makes it impossible anyhow.

I get HARD (rock) flaccid a lot of times even while lying down so I once again believe my injury is strange.. (most get better lying down)

The sound in combination with the hard “core” while hard flaccid scares me it was fascia tearing I heared, but I just don’t know yet..

I got painful bumps at my base. I think my fascia is teared there.
I think it’s my BC pushing out in strange ways now that my fascia there is gone.

I can massage them down but they return..

I pray it’s a strain and hard flaccid is the cause but the stomach healing growls leads to morning wood which leads to ache and square 1 again.

It’s torture.

Unless this rock hard flaccid that came about with a sound (read 0 recoveries when sound is involved) shows some improvement, I either want a ultrasound and booked surgery in the winter or I’ll start doing heroin I think.

I told this already in mail. I quit my job too, I can’t focus enough for it.

My life is pretty much over unless some miracle happens.


Last edited by Legitusz : 09-07-2016 at .

Maybe the last stage of a severe strain with sound is hard flaccid and I’m fine in a month, but I doubt it.

I will give it time until 2017 to heal on it’s own unless Doctors find some certain cause of ED/HF injury (not my other problems) they can fix right away.

If it’s not fixed 2017 or hope is restored in some way than I’ll give up either in a suicide or check out way.
Or I’ll demand/search for surgery or fix it the capitalist way hopefully in a safe manner.

If surgery isn’t possible then I think it’s over, I’ve read no good similar stories anywhere on the internet. I might study surgery myself and try to fix it myself before suicide, I’m that crazy and had given up even before this.

All hope I had was for a girl to MAYBE be able to save me from my messed up life, I already cut all my friends out and given up before all this happened.

I moved to a new country to restart and managed to cause this from sick masturbation habits when ache already was present.

I needed to quit for about a month before the sound happened, and I knew it could be bad soon. The ache was there. But I just had to do it some more…

It’s looking grim.

You should get some mental help for depression as well.

Originally Posted by Jimmybob55
You should get some mental help for depression as well.

I’ve already tried in sweden and this was before all this. I will ask for it again and I already made it quit clear in my email conversation to the urologist that my mind is totally given up now.

I don’t really want heavy medication and just working like a drone. I need my libido (gone again) and erections back or life is more nothing than ever.

What brings me some hope is the fascia stories/theories I read don’t really involve pain and okay urinary functions, my penis head is ok too, hard to fill.
Most people describe tightness but I’ve had real bad pain sometimes.

Since my injury is caused in such a brainless and lack of self respect way I guess it could be a one of a kind strain/detachment too.. I don’t know if that’s a good sign thought..

Still got slight hope some moments during the day.
The pain feels less, the stomach growls is still going but the hard flaccid feels worse than a month ago. I didn’t even have a HF until after some injury time I’m pretty sure. And my ED has gotten worse except for some weak morning erections. My flaccid is really rock hard most times now. It’s dishearthening.

Well it’s not all lost yet but I’ll try to get some theraphist to talk to. I’m not sure they can relate to my life, no one could even before this but just talking is nice.

Find a therapist of maybe even a good friend to talk to.

Make sure you try everything before you kill yourself, and don’t try to fix it yourself with self surgery, that would be just a cruel thing to do to yourself. 2017 is way too early to give up.

And I’ll say again, do reverse kegels, it really does help with hard flaccid.


Last edited by ChuckaChicken : 09-08-2016 at .

Originally Posted by ChuckaChicken
Make sure you try everything before you kill yourself, and don’t try to fix it yourself with self surgery, that would be just a cruel thing to do to yourself. 2017 is way too early to give up.
And I’ll say again, do reverse kegels, it really does help with hard flaccid.

I’ve kind of given up but a surgery might be able to solve this. Reverse kegels, waiting and relaxation will not heal this fully I’m pretty sure. The sound was something tearing and it matches fascia stories.

I should have waited before this happened, addiction, cannabis and loneliness made me keep going like a retard… I was in a cold cabin at the time of my last stretches… I masturbated a while later and it cramped. My BC was already tensed and maybe strained but functional. I think my fascia got stretched dangerously much this cold, no warmup stretch in the cold cabin. Idiotic. It needed rest back then. I even realized it but I couldn’t abstain for 3 months or so…..

Then some months later the sound happened as I ejaculated and all the real issues started..

My scrotum is cold too sometimes a day. I think my Dartos is teared. Should be possible to fix but I have no idea where to start with surgeons and I REALLY hope my urologist visit can lead to ultrasound and later on a surgery.

Originally Posted by ChuckaChicken
Make sure you try everything before you kill yourself, and don’t try to fix it yourself with self surgery, that would be just a cruel thing to do to yourself. 2017 is way too early to give up.
And I’ll say again, do reverse kegels, it really does help with hard flaccid.

I’ve kind of given up but a surgery might be able to solve this. Reverse kegels, waiting and relaxation will not heal this fully I’m pretty sure. The sound was something tearing and it matches fascia stories.

I should have waited before this happened, addiction, cannabis and loneliness made me keep going like a retard… I was in a cold cabin at the time of my last stretches… I masturbated a while later and it cramped. My BC was already tensed and maybe strained but functional. I think my fascia got stretched dangerously much this cold, no warmup stretch in the cold cabin. Idiotic. It needed rest back then. I even realized it but I couldn’t abstain for 3 months or so…..

Then some months later the sound happened as I ejaculated and all the real issues started..

I don’t believe my tearing is massive yet and it should be somewhat easy to suture if I get someone willing to do it..

I want to check most things but I really hope ultrasound pick up dartos fascia. It maybe won’t and then I’m stuck not being able to easilily convince a surgeon.

Right now I can pay up to around 100 000 SEK for private doctors to fix this so maybe this could be the first documented fascia repair.
If I don’t give up I could probably save up more but this should be “cheaper” to fix.

I read majorwang I think if I remember correctly claiming to have had surgery but he dissapears in the thread without maling further confirmations.

My scrotum is cold too sometimes a day. I think my Dartos is teared. Should be possible to fix but I have no idea where to start with surgeons and I REALLY hope my urologist visit can lead to ultrasound and later on a surgery.

Maybe surgery for me is impossible in this time and age, papers and research needs catching up before any good surgeon will do it. But I can’t take this life much longer so I will really try to push for it.

Just for fun I have 2 totally messed up ideas that could work. I will probably never do them.

1. Vetrinary ultrasounds might be very suitible for this type of injuries.
2.This is retarded, but keeping a chastity belt AND catheter on 24/7 while lying in bed most times for 1-1.5~ month might give the fascia enough time to heal to a state where it will recover if you remove it and abstain for even longer. It would certainly bring about other problems but maybe they’d be more managable. LAST LAST resort.

*added some

I pray it’s just the muscle shrinking that made the floff sound with no pain.. Just after ejaculation.

If my fascia was so weak it tore from ejaculation it’s a joke…

I still have real pain especially at the bulb. It’s really swollen.

Actually quite ok tonight. I ended the fast, will maybe get pizza tomorrow just for celebration of my softer flaccid.

My BC is still messed up, HF is still there but some times during this night it has been soft and the bumpiness in perenium is still there.

Hoping for strain again, maybe I managed a tier 2.5 muscle strain and it made a sound. Hopefully next month it will release/contract back and less pain.

It actually feels better again.

I used to use ice in cloth but quit like a month ago.
I realized hot treatment were bad for the pelvic problems and I’ve used cold for now instead.

Hot feels very good but my “bump” at/behind/in scrotum, bc swollness just stays.

I think my penis need hot and the bc cold.. BC will probably benefit from hot treatment later.

Anyhow I got a lot of full size erections, they’re boxy, tiring(but less so) and veiny but seems very promising.

I 70% don’t think my fascia is teared now… The sound freaks me out but a strain matches my symptoms more I think.
My BC strain or what ever muscle messup seems pretty bad.. The support is weak and angles are bad.

I noticed my superfiscial dorsal vein has a “rock”/something hard inside it at place of blockage.

I probably have a thrombosis. Good news is I tried pressing on it and a smaller vein ( think same or New(?)) engorges on top of it so it’s not 100% blocked.

I think my foreskin discolor is from this and it might mess around with everything. No pain

Thanks ChuckaChicken for the tips about it.

Much better overall. Libido is creeping back. Gonna start painting X on my hands soon If it keeps improving lol.

Erections die from BC weakness after a while but I can keep them longer now. Not trying to force anything.

No sex/masturbation til 2017. My dick needs rest.

Do Hindi Squats everyday to help stretch out the pelvic floor.

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