Loss of bladder control + white stuff

I’ve been in PE for a while.. but something changed..

1. Since a while (2 months or so) I’ve been getting white/transparent fluid out of my urethrae, for no reason and non stopping.. sometimes it’s hardly noticeable, sometimes I can see stains in my underwear from it.
I’ve never had this before, is goes on all day.
2. I get a strange feeling when I’m done with taking a piss, the last 2 seconds almost feel like an orgasm. <- Never had that before, unless I needed to pee really really bad.
3. I can’t hold back my piss, at least not as long as I could. When I need to take a piss and I feel it. I can’t just keep standing and hold it back, I need to jump around and act silly with my legs, it is stronger than me. <- Never had that.. I could hold it up for ages, now I can’t and most of the times it’s not even a big piss.. they range from big to little 5 seconds pisses I can’t hold back.

I am only 19 and have a girlfriend but we broke up in June, and got back together in August. She fucked someone else during that off-time, but she did an STD test and nothing came out..
She did have trouble with fluid coming out of her vagina as well. more than normal she told me + she had a pain in groin area, but she doesn’t have complaints anymore.
I didn’t do anything weird so.. what the hell is happening to me :(

Well, I am not too good on the topic of the fluids, it may be some kind of discharge. Your bladder seems to be very weak and I should be able to help with that!

Firstly, DO NOT keeping pee’ing, drink lots of water and wait for your bladder to fill, don’t release it early - your mind is telling you that your bladder needs emptying early because you are used to it now.

Secondly, when you pee, kegel and hold the urine flow and hold for about 10 seconds and then you can continue… keep repeating until you are empty.

NEVER use the toilet when you don’t need to, for example - if you are going out, don’t pee just to be on the safe side, wait till you need to really go. Also, are you eating properly? Make sure you are getting enough magnesium and potassium… banana’s are a great source.

I just had a thought… Do you do a lot of “edging” during your PE session? You may be trapping precum or something in your pipes and releasing it throughout the day due to the weak BC muscles. (Hope I have named the correct muscle WestLA, lol) ;)

I would have an STD test just to be on the safe side.

I should do a test..
And herbalist thanks for your attention but I tried most you told me. luckily I’ve been eating like 5 banana’s this week.
Drank lots of water lately because I wanted a bigger flaccid, also I started edging without cumming recently. But I had this problem before edging.
I did kegel exercises in the past, I could pee and stop my flow with no problem at all, no matter how bad I needed to pee.

I will try not to go to the toilet to soon. I eat properly ;) fruits, vegetable and protein.. I train, fitness and kung fu.
My BC muscle used to be strong, I could even hold my cum when I orgasm.. I still can. But I can’t hold back the pee :S

Sounds like clamidia…go get checked.

It seems a kind of gonorrhea, it is not enough to make generic tests you need specific one for chlamydia, micoelements and other ones that a good urologist can suggest.

The white liquid sounds like the stuff released from the prostate when massaged.
Otherwise it sounds like an infection or an STD which could of been missed.

I have also been peeing without holding so I am going to start training my bladder starting from now.

So SHE took a test, told you about it, and you take her version of the result as gospel?

YOU go take a test.

1-You have some stuff that comes out of your dick

2-You need to pee all the time

Powpow the Internet MD tells you you have urinary infection.

My advice: don’t listen to any Internet MD and go see a real one.

Ok, thank you all I will go and see my doctor :$

Good luck, hope everything is okay. xx

Any updates on what the doctor determined to be the problem Kevin?

I had a minor version of what the op was suffering.

Had to pee regularly, maybe up 2 or 3 times a night just to go to the loo and pre-cum stains in my jocks all day every day. Heck most times I’d go pee the last drops would dribble quite a bit at the end. It got to the point where I would go to put it back in my pants and a last dribble of piss would suddenly come out and make a mess of me! >:(

I let it go for ages and still haven’t gone to a doc about it however, since taking saw palmetto and pygeum I am as good as brand new. No dribbles, far less urge to pee despite still drinking 4 or 5 litres of water a day. I get up once at night to pee and even that’s usually after about 6 hours sleep, which is fine considering I have a pint of water before I go to bed every night.

It works and works very well and quite quickly too, I notice these changes after about 3 days on the stuff and subsequently decided to order 4 extra bottles for when I ran out as it is so effective at what it does. I bought it for it’s supposed sexual/ libido related benefits but later found out it’s benefits lay in my prostate (and urethra?) Anywhich way I’m not complaining, it got rid of my issue and may even help the original poster with his issues.

That being said, you do need to go to the doc because it sounds like you may have a problem that requires medical treatment once you have that get yourself a bottle of saw palmetto with pygeum and give it a try.

Sounds like a STD, what kind of “test” did your girl do?