How do I know if I need to stop nerve damage
I recently started having sex after a small lifetime of self pleasuring, and jelqing with a little jai stretching and other stretches, mostly jelqing and recently ulis.
But upon having sex, the blowjob feels funny, good but not as good as I remembered blow jobs being before PE. Now the blow-jobs I got then were quite awesome, and my gf is not quite as awesome. But I’m worried that it might be some kind of damage. I feel like it’s desensitized, maybe numb. Not sure if it’s the shaft or head or what. Maybe the whole thing. She could not make me cum, and when we had sex (with a condom) I felt like it was not sensitive enough, sometimes I wasn’t even sure if it was hard (it was).
Does this sound like irreversible nerve damage?
Sometimes I jelqed without warming up.
Sometimes I jelqued at almost full erection. A few times I think at full erection on jelq or uli, it never hurt or caused spots though!
Sometimes when I play with my head there is a very dull pain.
Maybe I damaged the nerve bundles?