I think, I am in the exact same situation.
Here is the story:
November 2006: My frenulum tore. Not just a little bit, but the scaring way with lots of blood. It kind of let go off the upper part of the glance. Pretty scared. Iced it, rested for a small week. Really wanting sex, so might just have been a little to anxious - had sex to early. Did not tore again, but was like a wound that wouldn’t heal. The continued until the end of December.
Had a 2 month pause from sex. Think that my frenulum was healed, now attached a little lower on the shaft. I did feel that it wasn’t as strong as before.
February 2007: Sex with a new girl. This time with a condom. Frenulum tears despite of the condom. Very scary to see blood in the condom.
March 2007: Sex with the original girl that caused first tear of frenulum. Using condom. It tears again.. And standing there, I act like an idiot: I see blood in the condom, feel pain, but it is still really nice (not the pain). So keep on having sex for a while, trying to avoid painful position..
April: Thinking, this is turning in to a serious problem. Go visit my GP. He sends me to a urologist. Urologist says: Yes boy, you are a little tight there. Maybe we should make a small releasing cut. Apparently this operation is suppose to solve the problem, making a small cut in the frenulum, so it heals in a new and better form, but now attaching a little lower (keeping my foreskin, which I really like).
That’s the story. So ticktickticker, firegoat and everyone: Any new updates and new information on your status? Any recommendations?