When erection porblems and fast ejaculation get into your head. You are screwed. It will haunt you, I know. It’s probably all in your dome and thats the worst kind is the mental. Let me guess everytime you get ready, its “I wonder if my buddy is gonna act right.” Bad road to be on , I feel for ya. Maybe for a while it was physical, but 100 to 1 , I bet it’s mental.