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Broken penis please help

I think a good bet is that we are not talking about venous leak here (my powers of internet diagnosis are strong) but of a thrombosed vein, totally overworked dick and a desensitized mind.

If you’ve had porn addiction problems, it isn’t something that you will be able to shrug off by abstaining for a month - then we are talking of a mindset that needs to be Ctrl+Alt+Del or tweaked or whatever view you take on the matter.

The SA-people subscribe to the same idea as AA - once an addict, always and addict and you need to give up yourself to a higher power because you have a force within you that is stronger than you (the addiction).

I subscribe to the functional approach - you have addiction problems because you (a) suffer from dopamine regulation problems, so you self-medicate by increasing dopamine levels with a quick fix or (b) you have not learned in childhood to self-regulate emotions with values, so you regulate emotions with a quick fix. Some people view it as different sides of the same coin, the hen or the egg or similar. At any rate you can “relearn” your reaction/behavioural patterns by introducing value driven behaviours rather than emotionally driven responses to “need”. I.e. looking at things at a longer time frame rather than satisfying your need with a quick fix, and acting thereafter.

Hard work, long time and plenty painful. 3-6 months without masturbation gives you an idea of the timeframe you are looking at - and that is whilst actually doing something about your problem.

Let’s put it this way - if you are an alcoholic, can you abstain from alcohol for a month and then start up again and expect to keep it at a reasonable level? Probably not. If you are going to drink again, it’s got to be in another context - not to quench a thirst, feed the rat or still a need. Maybe you can go back to drinking in the context of enjoying the taste of single malt, not the numbing that comes with too much whiskey?

Same goes for other addictions - the context, need, setting needs to be changed. Masturbation for the sake of exploring sexuality, sure. Masturbation in order to release and get a dopamine kick - no.

The functional approach is best described at www.recoverynation.com as far as I can tell.


regards, mgus

Taped onto the dashboard of a car at a junkyard, I once found the following: "Good judgement comes from experience. Experience comes from bad judgement." The car was crashed.

Primary goal: To have an EQ above average (i.e. streetsmart, compassionate about life and happy) Secondary goal: to make an anagram of my signature denoting how I feel about my gains

Well what about the pics- does that look liek a thrombosed vein

Good point is desinsitised mind.I wacthed so much porn for so long I just couldn’t get off to stuff anymore, then when I got heavy on the alcohol my libido dropped so with low libido and overuse of porn I could not find anything to get me off.I was paying for supermodel hookers and having 3somes and stuff and then managing to get erect ‘sometimes’

It is only recently though that I could not achieve full erections and the pain like now, plus this hard vein.so I don’t fully know the problem

I know I need to fix

1) alcohol- fixed.I can drink socially but I’m not very soical so I never drink and don’t get cravings now- thanks to my 6-12 month diet, training and supplement plan

2) porn- well I aint even watched porn for nealry a month as I don’t even get off to it, it’s like watching the news, I been using my mind which is getting me aroused better than actual porn which is a good thing

3) physical injury to dick- this is out of my control as far as I know unless it is just a case of rest and some warm massages etc..

Still I’d like some feedback on the pics guys if possible

Cheers

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Also I used to have ‘trouble’ with my erection being tooo high and hard. My erections were always vertical too the sky, now if get hard not like that.

Also I should add I have masturbated IMO as good as every day for last 6 years.

Even up until two weeks ago when my dick couldn’t get hard and was sore I would still wank and try and cum..

So I have never gone more than 1 week without wanking for probably a decade lol

Would cayenne pepper help?

Hey Wanki, can you read something around before answering? Cayenne should help for….what? If you don’t know what you have, you can’t say what could help, agree?

See if you recognize your symptoms in the threads related to thromboised vein.

”Members have described thrombosed veins as feeling similar to a squiggly guitar string or a tiny rubber band buried in the skin, though sometimes the clot is a hard, round bump or series of bumps. Occasionally there is mild, stinging pain and/or localized minor skin swelling at the site.”

I’d agree with that statement

But also

Guys with venous leaks mentioned pressing thumb on vein to maintain erection.I can also do this when I remove my finger from my vein the erection goes floppy..

I heard cayenne is good for thinning blood

I think you have an exausted penis and a thrombosed vein. Abuse of alcohol (in the past) has also messed your body chemistry/mind. Can you agree? So:

a) rest;

b) avoid porn;

c) don’t masturbate for some weeks;

d) take aspirin + vitamin C (say it to your Doc, when you get the chance);

e) read about what other members did in your same situation in related threads;

f) go to an urologist.

Good luck and keep us updated.

Yes that sounds best plan

Thanks people

Will report back with updates.

Cayenne definetely helps with masturbation problems - mix it up with hand cream for masturbation. Problems with abstaining go away.


regards, mgus

Taped onto the dashboard of a car at a junkyard, I once found the following: "Good judgement comes from experience. Experience comes from bad judgement." The car was crashed.

Primary goal: To have an EQ above average (i.e. streetsmart, compassionate about life and happy) Secondary goal: to make an anagram of my signature denoting how I feel about my gains

I meant to take cayenne orally?

You are saying I should rub it on my dick?

Edit- oh I get your joke lol hahahahahahaha

Stupid me hahaha

Well quick update lol

I had taken some aspirin and cayenne tea then later hot wrapped and massaged my dick and hard veins for 30mins or so, anyway some porn was on th tv and it got me real hard and this boner was strong and almost perfect.I masturbated a bit and there was no problem and then hot wrapped it up again

That is strange as the warm up enabled me to get a strong boner easily and with little discomofrt plus I was able to maintain it easy.though it’s slight aching now

Oh I also took some maca and mucuna puriens earlier before the gym though

Well the last 20 minutes or so I have really bad pins and needles in my penis..

I know, I need to leave it alone

But does this pins and needles give any more clues to the possible damage?

Urologist, you know.

Abstinence, you know.


regards, mgus

Taped onto the dashboard of a car at a junkyard, I once found the following: "Good judgement comes from experience. Experience comes from bad judgement." The car was crashed.

Primary goal: To have an EQ above average (i.e. streetsmart, compassionate about life and happy) Secondary goal: to make an anagram of my signature denoting how I feel about my gains

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