Guys.we need to embrace these things!! Listen, I am 7x5.5 NBP. Average. I hate to use cliches, but it is how you use it! Perfect your oral skills, do some kegels so you can last longer and have more control. You want deeper penetration? In missionary, prop her lower back up. GET A LIBERATOR!!Spiro, was this a vibrator or just a dildo? Also, take this into consideration: While you are pleasuring her with the dildo, she is free of ALL her psychological hangups with sex. This is PURE stimulation JUST for her. Your other hand is probably paying more attention to her sensitive areas (NIPPLES) and she can just sit back, relax and give in to the great feeling.Believe it or not, it is VERY hard for a woman to cum through vaginal sex and the ones that can easily are considered lucky! When a woman is having vaginal sex, the man is pretty much controlling the action. Unless that man is very intuned with this woman, it probably ain’t happening unless she gets on top and controls things. Also, probably in some women’s minds, they get nervous and anxious (“What if he cums first?” Do I smell?” I look fat!” etc) These things are the anti-orgasm.
In summary, don’t get down on yourself. It is a MAJOR turn off for women and will KILL your libido. She likes the dildo? Give it to her!
lol! I can’t believe this thread is still going! It was a dildo. I do think the hardness is a huge factor as to her response. As far as I know, it’s impossible for any real dick to be that hard. Anyway, I’m much more comfortable using these types of things with her now, but she’s more into getting the “real thing” despite feeling the dildo more. I think the same would be true for me. Think about it, would you rather have a woman use a supertight fake vagina on you, or would you rather really be in the woman?