Ballooning for beginners
I’ve recently gotten back into PE, and just caught up with that giant thread about ballooning by Werner Ashford. I think there’s definitely merit behind the idea of ballooning for PE purposes, and the idea of being able to separate orgasm and ejaculation to become multi orgasmic is probably more appealing to me than getting bigger. (Though I wouldn’t turn down any gains!)
Firstly, for those who haven’t read the thread, the gist of ballooning is summarized very well in 2 posts:
Werner Ashford - Sweet rewards - balloning works
I’m not interested in supplements, bogus doctors, or the mysticism behind the concept of ballooning, but I do have some questions that I am hopeful that the more experienced can answer (and I’m hopeful that this thread can be used by like minded individuals).
My questions for the vets:
Does ballooning engorge the penis to the same extent of clamping? I’ve had some success with clamping in my first month of trying it, but the idea of a more natural method of maintaining that level of engorgement would be preferable.
As far as the “retraining” of the response to more subtle stimulation, do you flex the PC muscle during the stimulation? I’m having a difficult time keeping the arousal level high despite my best efforts. Granted, I’ve only been trying for a couple days, so I’m sure I’m still very hard wired towards a rougher stimulation of the trigger areas.
Has anyone experienced ejaculation without orgasm? While edging a few times, I’ve completely relaxed, and had semen (a full ejaculation’s worth.. not just a drop or two) ooze out, without the orgasmic feeling to go along with it. The first time this happened, I was curious if I had “wasted” the orgasm, so I quickly masturbated to an orgasm with another (although smaller) ejaculation. Seems I’m going the wrong way!
Finally, what techniques did you find were the best in retraining the penis/body to enable ballooning? Is the glans totally off limits?
Thanks for any advice you guys have!