8" x 6" and not happy??

My locker room days have long since past since I’m not all that active in sports anymore so that perspective of seeing other guy’s size is totally lost on me. Not that I’m looking to go hawking in a gym shower (LOL) but when yours is the only one you see, and you see your buddy ALL the time, perspective of size is nil. No matter what anyone tells you, perspective of true size can’t be gotten from a photo or video. Not really anyway.

Like you, I’ve really only noticed a fuller flaccid primarily, but my girlfriend makes comments all the time about me feeling bigger and bigger. Other than that though, I don’t see a big dick at all. I just see me. So like you say, When that day comes when I look in the mirror and say “that’s a big one,” maybe then I’ll stop.

I don’t know about the rest of you, but when I hit 8” BPEL by 6” BEG I was ecstatic. I was so happy to reach my goal and look at myself in the mirror.

However, I still kept up PE to work on other things. Mainly I worked on bringing up girth along the shaft and head girth for years. A lot of attention was put on bringing up that taper. When I felt girth was no longer lagging I came back to working on length, and I’m fairly close to 9” BPEL and a little over 5.5” MEG. Girth will be next when I reach 9”.

PE is this interesting hobby for me to do a couple days a week. It started out being for the girls and pushing myself to the breaking point to be happy with a certain size, but it’ so much more than that now and I’m happy with my results.

I think of the 8” by 6” dream size as being the day after opening your Christmas presents when all the stress is over and you have nothing left to look forward to. Some guys really miss that high so much they will go back to PE trying to make themselves feel better, like what they thought would happen in the first place.

8 by 6! Id be so happy with that! Yes, you are getting greedy! You just want to stand out from the others, but since you are all collectively raising the bar on the common penis size, you have to go even bigger with your goals to be that Guy who has the big penis women can’t deny themselves, or that special guy who stands out from the rest.

I know this because its the same exact mentality with natural breast enhancement. I have been guilty of this greed myself growing my breasts. I wanted to reach a nice realistic goal of a C cup. That’s plenty for looking good naked, fitting into the sexiest wardrobe, and for most men out there. But when I reached my goal, that’s when it struck me, I had to have bigger! I found myself at a nice full D and knowing I can possibly reach larger, I wanted to go to an F. I halted my BE program and decided my health was more important( I had autoimmune diseases that need to be addressed). So I am now naturally a D and am very happy with it. Will I continue later in my BE program, sadly yes, I’m addicted in a sense, morphing to my ideal physique, but I am also okay with it if it doesn’t happen.

Yes, big large dicks can scare a gal away. Girth is more important than the length that’s for sure.

Welcome to the board! Nice to have a females perspective around here. I personally like big breast, but those bigger than size D tend to just get in the way during sex in my opinion. So i think C or D is the best size. Anyways, I guess obsession with size isn’t just an issue amongst us men after all.

FertilityQueen,

It’s nice to find a woman that understands our fixation.

There sure is a lot of penis out there.

This past weekend I had an experience with a woman who has never seen me before. Upon pulling it out, she paused and said, “You’ve got a pretty big dick.” Just thought I’d throw that out there. Ultimately we do it for ourselves, but some of the comments in this thread seem like we aren’t keeping things in perspective. I’m not 8x6, and a long ways from it in the girth department. That’s my ultimate goal, but for now I’m just looking for a smaller, more reasonable goal, and even at my natural size, I’ve impressed many partners.

What a great question this is! Prompted some less-than-totally-comfortable soul searching for sure. I was about 7 1/2” X 5 3/4” when I started PE, and am now at about 8 1/2” X 6,” and still want bigger. This despite the fact that I have never had a girl express dissatisfaction with my size, and have had trouble with a couple different partners in some positions with painful cervical bumping and/or skewering my thang on an IUD as a result of being too long for the vagina in question. So this thread definitely made me ask myself what the hell I’m doing still trying to enlarge. What I’ve realized is that it doesn’t really seem like there are any guaranteed physiological-sexual benefits to a particular penis size, as long as it’s in the realm of functionality.. Different women with different vaginas are going to prefer different things.. Some do indeed like the stretching sensation of a girthy object being inserted, some really do not. Some women really like the sensation of having their cervix banged on by super deep penetration, most do not. So what’s the big deal with size? I don’t want to make sweeping generalizations about all women or all men, but it seems like the main concern is pride in different ways for both genders. From what I’ve seen from a lot of women is that they are proud to tell their friends how big their lover’s dick is, regardless of whether or not they actually enjoy the size. We men get all kinds of insecure when we hear that a former lover or rival for a lady’s affections has a bigger dick than we do, even if we have reason to believe it’s not necessarily preferable for her.. I remember an ex girlfriend of mine telling me how an ex boyfriend of hers had a dick as thick as her wrist, and how terrible the sex was as a result; how she never wanted to have sex with him. I think of myself as a reasonably intelligent dude, and yet I was *jealous* of that former boyfriend with the prohibitively large penis. What the hell, insecurity? Which is all to say, I have a perfectly reasonable penis, but I’m trying to make it bigger, and it’s completely about pride, aesthetics, and selfishness. This is not to make me a better lover, to give more pleasure to my partner, as much as I might want to frame it that way. It’s a way I’m trying to “feel like a real man,” a flesh-and-blood monster truck of overcompensation. Stoopid monkey.

I have 6” girth. More when I pump before sex. My GF who has a big pussy is a sore to the point of annoyance after basically a robust fucking on Friday and Saturday night. Honestly I think she’d rather fuck smaller all weekend than me.

I’m 6” thick at the base and my wife could take more.

She never has issues after getting pounded.

She’s the perfect wife.

Even when I was 6.8 x 5.2 startin size I had several comments about me beeing big. And several girls I filled out and fucked to vaginal orgasm.

Now at 7.8 x 5.5 I get comments all the time how Im huge and for some girls I have to go very very slow and in the wrong mood they can be bitchy about it.
With my now longer dick I “hurt” some girls when hammering away.

If you want to go out and have fun with as many girls as you can possible then 8x6 will give you less pussy then 7x5. We all know that the girl talk about 8x6 beeing the least they need is all B.S.

Sure, there is a market for everything and you can specificly cater to size queens. Even 10x7 is usable with a woman.
But for some I suspect they are even so insecure about 8x6 that they are probably not in the position to be open or confident about it.

A wife “growing” with you over several years is another story. You just stop when she is about to get uncomfortable.

If you are 8x6 and its a chore for you to do PE then you should change your position on it possibly..?

That said I think you can accomodate almost every girl in long term relationship to a 8.2x6.2 :D ..so thats what Im going for :P

I wish this site had a rep system. That was a fantastic post.

At this size would you say it’s the girth or length that’s the most troublesome for the ones who struggle? Or are they pretty much equally troublesome? Also, since you seem to be having sex with a lot of girls, what would you say is the ratio between those who overall enjoy the size and those who seem like they would be much happier with smaller?

Yeah he nailed it! No pun intended.

Length can be very troublesome. Some positions they can get defensive(pulling away or kicking lol).
I would say if the mood is right(relaxed) and I roll the whole programm(massage, foreplay and slow increase of intensity/deepness) then I almost never have problems.
Some positions like laying from behind with the ass as a padding are perfect to hammer away with a long dick. Missionary with feet at shoulders not so much and many girls fear it and push away.

Obviously you can adjust. You can use a 12 inch long dick with no problem as long as you dont try to shove all inside.

Girthwise I had some girls at 5.3 who felt loose. And some really tight. I can absolutely see that at 6 midgirth there will be problems with some.(at least for spontaneous sex)

Some like it smaller or lets say they want it more fitting. There are some girls Im really fitting with and I like to revisit. Some its just not so much fun for both.
In tantra there are different types who fit to each other and I think its absolutely true.
( examiner.com )

It could be that you grow a huge dick and you will meet a wonderfull girl you want to spend your life with but sex will be no fun on a daily base.