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It Feels Like Your Hitting My Bladder.

I started PE in May of 2011.. So about 9 months ago. In that time I have gained anywhere from .5inch - 1inch. It’s hard to tell for sure, because I’m sure some of it is from increased EQ.

I do know one thing for sure though, before I started PE at 100% EQ my EL was around 6inches and now I can get to around 7 on some days. I’d like to start a thread in the member pics section but I do not have access to that area yet.

But back to the point of my thread. I have been with the same girl for over 5 years now. Every once in a while .. Like maybe once every two months she would get a ‘pain’ during sex. Since this wasn’t happening often we never really thought anything of it. Fast forward to right now .. Or the past 4 months and she has been getting this pain or sensation every time. It’s weird because I can feel the spot inside her that she says is bothering her. She says that it feels like I’m hitting her bladder and if I keep going she’ll have to pee, which I ALWAYS say not to worry about .. But she tells me to stop and I do.

This really isn’t a problem, but now I’m just curious about it. She has said many times that if she can just get passed it mentally (the idea of having to pee) she thinks it will feel really good. I fucking love it, but I don’t want to hurt her .. But I can feel it right on my glands and it’s just .. Fantastic.

Any ideas?

Sounds like you are “bottoming out”. For some women this feels good, and for some it hurts. If it’s hurting her, don’t do it (don’t put it all the way in).

If you plan to spend the rest of your life with this person, then you have reached the length you need. Work on girth.

Weird. Does she pee before sex? Do you notice this during certain positions? My wife used to sometimes get a sensation she had to pee during sex when we used certain positions but she has done some kegels and strengthening of pelvic muscles and it doesn’t happen anymore

She might just be ready to squirt… ;)


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Just to answer a few questions all in one post instead of quoting everyone ..

Yes, she does pee before sex. Every time. We have been making a point of it the past few weeks to so we could hopefully avoid it. She is a small girl .. Maybe 5’4 so I suppose I could be bottoming out but I don’t ‘know how likely that is given my length.

I am absolutely spending the rest of my life with this girl. I love her to death, but I was never really doing PE for her .. I was just doing it because I wanted to do it. I certainly don’t want to hurt her though.

As far as positions .. I guess we will have to try some other ones to see if we can pin point what is making this happen .. But when your in the moment it’s easy to forget to run experiments. I can say that she always feels it in missionary. Sometimes when she’s on top.. Especially when she is on top leaning forward and I’m the one doing it.

Originally Posted by 74zowee86
She might just be ready to squirt… ;)

Thought the same.

You can start a thread in the newbie section than ask to a mod to move the thread in the pics section and then post your pics, LAJJ.


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I don’t want to alarm you, but it may be a good idea for her to have a thorough check up with gynecologist in case there is an underlying problem & if there is catching any problem early can make huge difference.

She might be getting ready to squirt from the sex, which some girls say feels like they’re going to pee.


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Originally Posted by LAJeffJefferson
I started PE in May of 2011.. So about 9 months ago. In that time I have gained anywhere from .5inch - 1inch. It’s hard to tell for sure, because I’m sure some of it is from increased EQ.

I do know one thing for sure though, before I started PE at 100% EQ my EL was around 6inches and now I can get to around 7 on some days. I’d like to start a thread in the member pics section but I do not have access to that area yet.

But back to the point of my thread. I have been with the same girl for over 5 years now. Every once in a while .. Like maybe once every two months she would get a ‘pain’ during sex. Since this wasn’t happening often we never really thought anything of it. Fast forward to right now .. Or the past 4 months and she has been getting this pain or sensation every time. It’s weird because I can feel the spot inside her that she says is bothering her. She says that it feels like I’m hitting her bladder and if I keep going she’ll have to pee, which I ALWAYS say not to worry about .. But she tells me to stop and I do.

This really isn’t a problem, but now I’m just curious about it. She has said many times that if she can just get passed it mentally (the idea of having to pee) she thinks it will feel really good. I fucking love it, but I don’t want to hurt her .. But I can feel it right on my glands and it’s just .. Fantastic.

Any ideas?

Congrats, dude. You are not bottoming out. You are stimulating her G spot. If you can get her to relax and trust you that she is not going to pee, she will have a G spot/ ejaculatory orgasm. You must be hitting the right spot with the right force, with increasing frequency. Trust me. This is what is happening. She will have to have trust in you. I find that it is hard for women to believe they are not getting ready to piss themselves, and they are afraid to do that. But, I also win a woman’s trust, so it is not difficult to get them to trust me when I explain what is actually happening. Talk to her. Explain what I just told you and tell her to just relax, enjoy the sex, and let it happen. She will be glad she did, and so will you. Very we orgasms, though. Have a towel, and clean sheets ready. Truly awesome, when a chick squirts for you, though.

By the way, while almost all women feel as if they need to pee prior to squirting, some do feel minor discomfort. It’s not the depth of your stroke, it’s the angle. The G spot is on the front wall of the vagina, not deep inside. However, many positions that allow the deepest penetration, also allow for G spot stimulation.

It might be simply she is holding back her prophetic fluid. Tell her to just let it go n either she will realize she can squirt or you’ll get peed on. This happened to an ex of mine a lot, one time she decided to let it go. After that our sex life was insane. Do some research on it n possibly get it checked. You might find this problem will be the start of a better sex life.

At 7” in length it is also possible he is ‘bottoming out.’

G-spot stimulation doesn’t typically cause women to flinch in pain. That wince reaction is more typical with pressure on the cervix.

A woman’s G-spot is located closer to the opening of the vagina. If you were to start at the clitoris and slide your finger down to and inside the opening it would be a few inches (depending on the woman) inside along the top. It feels like a pad. Think of using your index finger in the “Come here” gesture. That’s usually an easy way to touch and stimulate the G-spot.

Just as there is variation in our external size, so too with women’s internal size. 7” is pretty long, all things considered. If his woman is under-average sized it is entirely possible he is bottoming out.

Given what he’s describing that would be my guess.

While some women’s G-spots are acutely sensitive, it is unusual for them to flinch in pain. And the bladder remark also makes it more likely that it’s cervical pressure that’s the culprit.


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Unless I’m misreading and misunderstanding.

Does the pain occur when you are deep inside, or somewhat short of that?

Is the described ‘need to pee’ part of this pain? Or is it different?

Most men can hit most women’s G-spots. It’s less of a size issue; more of an angle issue.

It’s also possible that you are both bottoming out (the pain) and stimulating her in such a way as to make her feel as though she will squirt (the need to pee).

I guess it most depends on when she feels the pain, how deep you are in her, and if it’s directly related to this need to pee.

She could also need to pee. Deep penetration that pushes on the bladder can trigger that reaction as well.


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The feeling on the glans… Is that when you go as deep as you can? Does it feel like you push past a point and then something tightens around the head of your dick?


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Wow. Thanks for all of the feedback guys. This place is awesome. To clarify ..

Originally Posted by Mr. Happy
The feeling on the glans.. Is that when you go as deep as you can? Does it feel like you push past a point and then something tightens around the head of your dick?

This is exactly the feeling on my end. I reach a point where just my head can pass, which tightens up a ton and feels incredible. And yes the pain and uncomfortableness / needing to pee is all one things for her. It’s not 1 or the other. I can see her face and I frequently ask ’ does it hurt ’ and the response is always ‘kind of’ which is her way of saying yes but doesn’t want me to stop because she knows I like it. She’s the best. I do slow down at this point because I don’t want to put her in pain.

We refer to it as a ‘road block’ for lack of a better term. It happens when I go all the way in. If just my head is in there is no pain/whatever that feeling is at all .. Which is what we do for a while before I go all the way in.

On her end she feels the urge to pee .. And If we really get going she’ll tell me to stop so she doesn’t.

Someone mentioned the cervix. She was a biology major so she does understand her own body, and she has said that ‘I might be hitting her cervix’ many times.

From what I am reading on here, It kind of sound like I am both ‘bottoming out’ and hitting her spot at the same time. I CAN go all the way inside of her though, which is why I’m hesitant to say I’m hitting her cervix.

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