Hello, I am insecure about my penis
Let me just start off by saying I have never had sex.
I think my penis is in the normal range, but I still don’t believe it. I have an unhealthy relationship with my penis I believe.
On a full erection, my penis has measured 7x 5.5 and around 5.1 at the base.
However, this number is not consistent. It can sometimes measure 6 inches long or even 5.9! I know that that is “average” but it doesn’t look average to me and it worries me.
I can say you have a 7 inch penis and then whip out a 6 or less! But sometimes it IS 7 inches! The girth varies too! Sometimes it cannot fit in a toilet paper roll and sometimes it can.
I think it is about as big around as a banana maybe a little more, just a little. But is that small? That feels pretty big in my hands when I hold the banana but not when I hold my penis.
The thinner base really bothers me. Mid-shaft, when I wrap my hand around it, the fingers touch but I can feel my dick all the way around. But at the base there is space. I have a space base.
I know that I am “normal” but I’m not sure that is good. I mean is a normal man balding? Or fat? Or poor? Yes. So I don’t think a normal penis is good!
Sometimes the middle will be 5.0 and the base will be even thinner!
I think I will make a pro/ con list for my penis for you to see.
PRO:
It’s uniform color.
Has a proportionate head
Is straight
CON:
It is THINNER at the base!
Really tiny when flaccid. Sometimes 4 inches but most of the time it’s 2-3
Does not curve up. Sticks out straight or slightly down when standing up
Loses erection if not being stimulated. (This may just be from not being aroused)
The size varies. Like sometimes as much as an inch.
Also, should I be able to wrap my fingers around my penis?
When I measure, should I measure from the top or the side? Push to the bone or not?
Is a thinner base really as bad as I think? I think it’s because when I jerk off, I have always jerked the middle/ head. I have NEVER jerked the base. Not once. I always jerked off dry and so stroking from base to head was hard so I just touched the middle.
Can I show pics on here? I have some but I’m not sure if I can. They are on tinypic.
I have never tried jelqing, but can that help me? Help my girth?
Thanks and sorry for the huge post.
Last edited by Dig Bick : 02-12-2012 at .