Cumming too fast--need to hold BC muscle

Well.when I masturbate I have to hold my BC muscle.it’s very hard for me not to.and it ends up making me cum faster.if I’m saying the wrong muscle.it is the muscle which stops urine, and moves the penis, you need to use it for the lot theory..

Well.I know this is not normal.and I need advice on how to stop myself from using that muscle.I’ve read that using your anus muscles.moving your tailbone is good.and is actually better.since you can have mental orgasms.and I’m really tensed.never relaxed

.I’m not enjoying.I’m just trying not to cum and can’t relax and fully enjoy.during my sessions..

Advice/suggestions?

Thanks.and also.will using just the newbie routine for a couple months.gimme anything.any experience on that.because I really don’t want to mess with my dick that much.seriously.you guys are messing with valuable tissues and veins, just for a bigger penis, which probably isn’t a women’s main concern

Better safe than to be sorry

Yeah dude… chill out. Holding the BC muscle while jackin’ it is totally stressful. I would like to personally recommend that you smoke some of the “miraculous herb”… Yeah…

You maybe are referring to PC muscle, anyway I’ve noticed the same problem: if I flex and hold that muscle I cum faster too. Instead of kegel, you may try the reverse kegel during masturbation (this is the exact opposite of holding: releasing or push out).

If you don’t exaggerate or put too much pressure in every exercise, take the proper break, follow the instructions with no hurry to achieve sudden results, feel your body, and especially use the common sense ;) , you more likely cannot have any side effect. I don’t think there is anything else to say.

GuileJack - He is referring to the correct muscle, the BC. See this.

prodigy - Please take a minute to read the Forum Guidelines. I can barely read your post because you put periods every few words and don’t capitalize the first word of each sentence. It helps everyone if you can write proper English. Thanks!

Regarding your problem: It sounds like you’ve been reading Dr. Lin’s sites. The only way I know of stopping yourself from doing it is to make yourself concentrate on what you’re doing when you masturbate. Consciously try to relax the muscle. I don’t know of any other way to keep you from doing it.