Best Jelqing Lube Ever
When I first started PE, I used Vaseline for jelqing but didn’t like it: it’s gooey, oil-based, and a pain to wash off. So, I started trying different things to use as jelqing lube including baby oil (too thin), olive oil (also, too thin), silicone lube (again, too thin), water-based lubes like K-Y and astroglide (these all get sticky and need to be rehydrated), lotion (dries out), and Shea butter (too thick). I wanted a lube that would not get sticky or dry out, was slippery but offered a bit of grip (I.e. Not too thick or thin), was easy to clean up, and something that was actually good for my skin and would help minimize stretch marks. After months of trial and error, I’ve finally found it.
The lube is a mixture of olive oil and shea butter. It is great for the skin, is the perfect consistency (can be adjusted to your liking), doesn’t dry out, and is super easy to clean off (just wipe off the excess and rub the residue into your skin like lotion). I’ve been using this stuff for a few weeks and my wife has started to comment on how smooth my dick feels (she’s started rubbing my cock all the time because she likes the way it feels — so, that’s a welcome bonus!).
Here’s the “recipe”: start off with equal parts olive oil and shea butter (make sure you get 100% shea butter, and not a shea butter lotion) in a small glass jar. The shea butter will be too thick to just mix it all together, so put the jar in the microwave (take off the metal lid first — obviously) until the whole mixture is liquefied (about 30-45 seconds in my microwave), stir it up, cover and let it sit and cool for a couple of hours. You’ll know it’s ready when it turns into a very soft off-white solid that melts in your hands. Now, the consistency is adjustable, so if it’s too thick, add olive oil, remelt and cool; if it’s too thin, add shea butter, remelt and cool.
This stuff is really great and I thought it was worth sharing. Also, if you make if on the thinner side, it’s also really good for masturbation. I hope some of you try this and let me know what you think. Enjoy!
Starting (May 2010): BPEL:6" EG: 4 7/8". Current (April 2011): BPEL: 6 3/4" EG: 5 1/4".
Short Term Goal: BPEL: 7" EG: 5.25" Long Term Goal: When my wife makes me stop or 8"x6" (whichever comes first)